ISBN: 1401309704
Date read: 2009-01-21
How strongly I recommend it: 5/10
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Identify the essential. Eliminate the rest. Set limitations. Become incredibly effective. Written by someone who's been successfully living this way for years.
We'll always come back to these two ideas:
1. Identify the essential
2. Eliminate the rest
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1. Set limitations
2. Choose the essential
3. Simplify
4. Focus
5. Create habits
6. Start small
Ask yourself the following questions about each task:
Choose an easy goal.
Choose something measurable.
Do it at the same time every day, if possible.
Choose a goal that will take 6-12 months to complete.
Break it down to focus on a smaller sub-goal that you can accomplish in the next month or two.
Create a weekly goal.
Each day, choose one action that will move you closer to your weekly goal. Make this action your most important task for the day. Do it first.
Choose just the top 3 projects on your list. This is your Simple Projects List.
Everything else goes on a 2nd list: the On-Deck List.
Don't move a project from the On-Deck List to the Simple Projects List until you finish all three projects on your Simple Projects List. Not just one, but all three.
Have at least one of your top 3 projects be related to your One Goal.
A project should take no more than a month to complete - preferably only a week or two.
Visualize what your project will look like when done.
Once a week, review your projects.
Choose 3 Most Important Tasks each day. Do it first thing, each day.
Ensure that one Most Important Task is goal-related, or related to one of your top 3 projects.
Break things down into small tasks that can be accomplished in an hour or less, preferably 20-30 minutes.
Don't procrastinate, but just get started. One you start, you'll gain momentum and will have broken through the initial resistance barrier, and be much more likely to continue to the next small task, and the next one, until the large task is complete.
What do you do instead of keeping a schedule? Know your priorities. From moment to moment decide what you should be doing based on your priorities, how much time you have available, and your energy level.
Learn to be in the moment, focusing on one task at a time, immersing yourself completely in that task.
If you aren't finding yourself passionate about a certain task, allow yourself to move on to something you're more passionate about.
The more passionate you are about a task or project, the more energy you'll put into it, and the better you'll do with it.
Flow is when you lose yourself in a task, and the world around you disappears.
How to get into flow:
Reduce the commitments in your life.
Viewed individually, none of them ever seems like too much work.
Take inventory of your current commitments. List everything: the more honest and complete your list, the better.
For each thing on the list:
- how does this give my life value?
- how important is it to me?
- does this further my life goals?
Make a short list of the commitments you choose.
("Here's mine: 1. Spending time with family, 2. Writing, 3. running, 4. Reading. That's my entire list.")
+ Leave space between tasks. Slow down and enjoy every task. Do nothing. Don't be afraid to be lazy sometimes.
With a well-planned morning routine:
Learn to focus your attention, to move it from one thing to the next more reluctantly, more slowly, at a more relaxed pace.
Pick a simple task. Keep your attention on it without switching.
Every time you switch your attention, take note of it.
Learn to stop yourself.
Practice this throughout the day, no matter what you're doing. Showering, eating, etc.
Use the first month to focus exclusively on forming the exercise habit.
Every month, set short-term goals for gradual improvements in exercise and diet plans.
Schedule your workout time. Find a time when you'll be able to exercise, when nothing will interfere. Do 5 workouts a week.
Don't allow yourself to miss a day.